In the past 20 or more years,Bruce and I shared much time and a multitude of experiences. He didn't reveal himself easily, but as time passed, I got to know and understand more, especially since we had many similar interests, joys and difficulties. By revealing my angst and weaknesses, he became more open and trusting.
As we got to know him and, as of late, working with Marge to process his affairs, we realized how well versed, accomplished and knowledgeable he was. Bruce was a Renaissance man, with interests covering politics, music, film, photography, nature, horticulture, history, architecture,boating, sports, cooking, automobiles and more. He was talented and adept in many of these activities..
Bruce was keenly aware and sensitive to the plight of the unfortunate. For many years, he regularly donated his rare AB negative blood, and platelets, quietly without any fanfare. When he lived in Massachusetts, he often visited an institutionalized relative when nobody else would. He would help you whenever you asked.
Bruce was a quiet guy, but he had loving relationships with family and friends. His face would beam upon hearing of the accomplishments of Christopher, Jennifer, Theo and their sons Christiaan and Sam, Nicholas and Diane. He appreciated his strong friendship with Paul, John and Chris, and many others who sent cards, email messages and texts when he could no longer speak. His wonderful wife Andrea filled his life with love and joy. She brought him happiness and comfort and laughter. He grieved quietly for years after her death. In later years, his friend Mary enriched his life. As his cancer progressed, her concern for his wellbeing was still evident.
So many people pulled together at the end. Sacrificing time to be with their own families, Paul, Jennifer, Christopher, Nicholas, Mary and of course my wife Marge gave untold time to tend to Bruce thruout his final journey. Rest in peace my friend.
Eddie Paige