Kathleen Sabatino
In the midst of the deep sadness we feel at the loss of Charlie, I cannot help but smile every time I think of him, and how in his quiet way he went about loving life, living passionately, and being of service to others.
As his oldest niece, I watched him closely, and I recall looking up to him as a "friendly giant" and learned many life lessons from him.
I recall his patience in tinkering on cars until he got them off cinder blocks and back on the road, his enjoyment and laidback demeanor as a skilled competitor at horseshoes and chess, and his quiet presence in any room taking in the whole experience.
He was always reading a good book, and would share with you his latest library finds if you inquired. As a teen, he shared with me his love of Stephen King and VC Andrews which left me spellbound and got me reading to keep up with him. His laughter was contagious and his appreciation of humor, comedy, and irony, taught me to look on the bright side of life and find joy even in the midst challenges.
He put his love for his family and friends into action. Always eager to get to work preparing a good meal, he wanted others to enjoy themselves so he took care in carving the roast beef, rolling the manicotti, just as long as we agreed to not add any grated cheese!
As his mother needed him, he became her primary caretaker. He companioned grandma through the aging process and dementia in a way that spoke of self-sacrifice and dedication. He continued that loving service for all of the Seniors in the "On Top of the World" community after Grandma's passing. His role as handyman, caretaker, and companion, spread as he became the neighbor to call on when you need a favor or a friend.
Although his body finally failed him, his heart was strong and a beautiful reflection of his faith passed down from his parents, modelled by his siblings, my "friendly giant" of an uncle was just tall enough to high five the crucifix every time he left my mother's home.
There is no double in my mind that he is enjoying his eternal home in heaven where laughter is plenty and love and happiness abounds.
