Tonight I just want to share some fond memories of a guy I loved as a friend who also was like a brother. We first met shortly after my wife Donna had passed into Gods hands some months earlier. We both were members of Dunedin's First United Methodist Church and about the time of Donna's death, there was a movement by some of the members of the church to form a singles group. There was a committee formed that consisted of  Mary Garrison, Melba Rilott, myself, another guy whose name slips my feeble mind and of course Jim. The group came to be known as 'The Upper Pinellas Singles' and was designed for those whom were widowed, divorced or single by choice. Through this group Jim and I became good friends. Also through this group Jim came to notice a wonderful woman by the name of Sara. For all of us the singles group became something of a family. We shared, we loved, we spent holidays together and a lot more. The Upper Pinellas Singles (UPS) gave us all something that was special. It was a Christian group and Jim played a vital part as did Sara. I happened to serve two terms as the groups chairperson and in between, Jim served one. As a result we had many great times to remember. We conducted weekly meetings where we had dinners. One of our favorites was an idea where Jim suggested that we have a 'Wok-an-Roll' party. There was every combination of so-called Chinese food and at the end, with the leftovers, he combined everything for a very forgettable concoction. Another time...we would have a weekly chapel time to conclude our meetings. Once a month we'd celebrate communion. Usually the preacher or associate would serve however one time they were not available. So without access to bread and wine, through Jim, communion consisted of Oreo cookies and milk. Needless to say that was one service no one ever forgot. Later, Jim and Sara were joined together in marriage. Our family of singles were on hand to see the marriage consummated and I was asked to be their best man. Today, that would be hard to prove as he lost the marriage certificate so someone else was the witness. But, there were the other singles there to verify it was true. Jim and Sara were so much a part of our group that they remained with us socially for a long time. Eventually, many of the single began to go their separate ways, however a few remained good friends, even to this day. Jimmis as I called him and Sara have remained my friends right up to his passing. I have lived in Greensboro, North Carolina for the past thirteen or so years and would make it a point to see the Boynton's whenever I was in the Tampa Bay area. When I learned of Jim's illness I was devastated. Why, would be the question. Here was a guy and his wife dedicated to working as volunteers at the church, the singles group and a church down the road in Clearwater that served the homeless. He was a computer geek and taught computerism (my word) and was good and patient with his students. He and Sara shared their love for florals and were involved in floral societies even as officers. At Christmas, it was always a treat to receive their Christmas cards as he had a love for art, did some paintings and designed his own Christmas cards with wonderful messages from the both of them. Being a stamp collector Jim would also put stamps from other periods of time to really show off his caring personality. One time I received a card where the envelop was nearly covered with old postage stamps...so many that they could not all be cancelled by Uncle Sam. The one final gesture of his and Sara's kindness was a check. Jimis gave me a check to help me with a passion and what I feel is my purpose in life. I have been to a number of countries and in America on Christian mission trips, building homes, planting gardens etc, etc. This past November, 2014 Jim and Sara gave me a check to help me go to the Mayan countryside of Guatemala. He said to take it; use it as if he were going because he would never get to go again.