You don't get to choose your husband's family, I was blessed to have a warm, hilarious Brother-in-Law, Best Man, Friend, and God Father to our daughter, in Lance.
I met Kathy and Lance while dating Bob (Kathy's brother and business partner). NY Prime, Mizner Park, Delray/Atlantic Ave, we hit them all, and what fun we had! One of the best memories was when we all traveled to Las Vegas, just the four of us, for a second commitment ceremony for Kathy and Lance. It was there at Kathy and Lance's wedding, that Bob and I realized, we wanted to get married very soon in the future. Lance was Bob's Brother in Law, Best Friend, and about 6 months later, became our Best Man at our wedding.
Kathy and Lance soon after moved to Georgia, so when Lance said, Hey Bobby and Lisa, why don't you move here to Georgia? WE DID! We let them know we were pregnant and Bob asked Lance if he would be God Father. I remember being very pregnant and hearing someone at the door. I opened the door and in true Lance fashion, Lance looked at my 9-month giant pregnant belly with wide eyes and jumped back 4 feet in disbelieve with arms wide... I remember holding my belly and laughing until I couldn't breathe. He was funny on the dime, + physical comedy, perfectly blended together, effortlessly.
Lance, I will so miss the heartfelt laughter you gave us, your thumbs up-raspberry sound combo, and the "Strawberry, Strawberry", safeword you called out if things got heated - making us break into laughter at family gatherings.
You lit up the room, now you will light up the heavens... we love you, Lance.