My Godmommy Valda... I have had so many memories with this remarkable, vibrant, spicy woman that I must share at least three with you all:1. I remember when Godmommy Valda decided to take all of her goddaughters on a cruise to the Bahamas--my dates could be wrong, but I believe that this was in 2000. We were so excited to go, but being the teenager girls that we were, we got into trouble, (not REAL trouble, but Godmommy Valda trouble), a few days before that and we knew that she was going to cancel the trip, (we were teenagers!) and tell our parents, but she didn't. We had the BEST time ever! She even reserved a dinner with us and the captain of the cruise ship--pretty awesome! Also, since Nyoka lived in New York, she wanted Kendra and I to meet her. That was my godmother. She made connections with people and she wanted people around her to share those connections too. 2. The song "If you Don't Know Me By Now"I remember when she came to visit us, one of the many times, I would be so excited then. Around this time I was about 8 years old, in 1990. I would just hang around her and my mother and listen to them. Their conversations were so interesting and so funny that even if I tried, I couldn't stay away. I don't know how this would happen, but EVERYTIME she came by, I knew that we would hear this song!3. Another memorable time, was in December of 2012. She attended my wedding and she was BEAUTIFUL. She laughed and danced the night away. What a sight to see! That was a moment in which there wasn't a lot of commentary, but if you were there, you couldn't help but take in her radiance. My godmother Valda was just that beautiful!If I could have had one last conversation with her, I would tell her that she has done so much moving around in her lifetime and now she will be able to finally rest. So Godmommy Valda, just relax and enjoy paradise! Love you soooo much!~ Tafara Kay (Callaway) Smith